Easily Leverage Your Friends' Birthdays to Start Conversations & Build Relationships
(and also generate leads and make sales)
Automate personalized birthday messages, posts, and follow-ups to nurture relationships on autopilot.
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Build Relationships with Multiple Touch Points
Strategically engage your friends before, during, and after their birthdays.
Advanced Happy Birthday
Start the conversation early and prime your leads with anticipation.
Happy Birthday DM
Send a personalized birthday message directly to their inbox.
Happy Birthday Post
Post a personalized message on their timeline for all to see.
Happy Birthday Follow-Up
Re-engage after the celebration with a thoughtful follow-up.
Features (and Benefits) of Birthday Wisher
Everything you need to leverage birthdays for relationship building and lead generation.
Advanced Happy Birthday DM's
Send advanced happy birthday wishes up to 7 days before their birthday.
Use this feature to send out advanced happy birthday wishes or simply start the conversation and prime your leads with another touch point. You can send an additional message up to 7 days before their birthday.
💡 Add a 3rd touch point by starting the conversation early and build even stronger relationships. They feel special.
Happy Birthday Messages (DM's)
Send personalized happy birthday messages on your friends' birthdays.
Using our built-in spintax you can generate many variations of your happy birthday messages. Include your friends' first name, last name, and even the current day of the week to personalize them. You can even include dynamic customized images and have different messages for males and females.
💡 Your friends will love getting personalized birthday messages from you — a great ice breaker and way to start conversations and build relationships.
Happy Birthday Posts (On Walls)
Post personalized birthday posts to your friends' timelines.
Add a second touch point (or make this your only touch point) and post personalized posts directly to your friends' timelines on their birthdays. You can even include personalized images in your posts.
💡 Adding a 2nd touch point not only builds the relationship further, but with the right message it can also drive traffic to your profile and generate new leads.
Happy Birthday Follow Up DM's
Follow up after their birthdays with personalized messages.
Add another touch point and send a follow-up message up to 7 days after their birthday. Another simple way to re-engage and build rapport.
💡 This 4th touch point is game-changing for building rapport.
Dynamic Images (Posts and DM's)
Use personalized images with their name included.
We integrate with Nifty Images so you can send personalized images in your DM's and posts. Easily include images that feature their names for that extra personal touch.
💡 The extra 'personal' touch makes your leads feel like you went out of your way for them.
Gender Based Messages and Posts
Create different messages specifically for him and for her.
Create different messages specifically for your male friends and others for your female friends. One more layer of hyper-personalization to make your leads feel that you've gone out of your way for them.
💡 A very personal touch to help you deliver relevant offers.

Built By Jon Vaughn
Friender is created by Jon Vaughn, a software engineer and entrepreneur who has generated over $25M+ in revenue using the same strategies and tools built into Friender.
Jon has been recognized with six ClickFunnels "2 Comma Club" awards — including multiple 2CC, 2CCX ($10M+), and 2CCC ($25M+) awards — all powered by Facebook organic marketing with Friender.
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Here's What Our Users Have to Say
Join thousands of happy users who are building relationships on autopilot.
"Easy to use! As marketers, we need to stay top-of-mind with our prospects, leads, and customers. This is the perfect way to do that. Everyone appreciates when we remember their birthday, and we can remind them of what we do and maybe even give them something special. We stick on their mind for when they need our product or service down the road. This is a brilliant extension!"
Ed Akehurst
Founder of Genius Software
"Birthday Wisher has been a game-changer for my business. I've built stronger relationships with my network just by taking the time to wish them a happy birthday. The automation makes it effortless!"
Sarah M.
Network Marketer
"The personalized images feature is incredible. My contacts actually reach out to thank me for the birthday wishes, which opens up conversations about my products naturally."
Mike T.
Sales Professional
"I love how I can set it up once and it runs automatically every day. The follow-up messages are perfect for keeping the conversation going after their birthday."
Jennifer L.
Real Estate Agent
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